Is cybering or porno cheating?
Is It Cheating Or Not?
Us guys surely are strange people arent we? We always seem
more dirty minded and far more sexually aggressive then
most of the ladies. Of course a lot more women would probably
be more aggressive if it wasnt for the fact we label them
with such nasty names when they do it. Anyway.
A lot of guys look at porn, yes I know women do it as well but
guys seem to make a serious habit out of it. What I have always
been curious about is where to draw the line between looking
and cheating.
Is it cheating to cyber with someone online? Is it cheating
if we look at porn? Is masturbation cheating? Is it cheating
if we masturbate to porn?
Well I think the answers are rather harsh in some respects.
Cybering with another person can be fun and entertaining.
However I think there is a line that needs to be clarified.
Engaging in a sexual relationship mentally can actually
be no different then when we do it physically. Masturbation
normally involves us sitting or lying down and just getting
ourselves off, that is not something I would consider to
be cheating. We all have needs and sometimes our partners
just can not be there all the time.
If we masturbate when cybering then I would think it to be
cheating. It is not the regular form of getting ourselves
off. We are mentally connecting with someone and using
that connection to get off. In that particular situation
if that other person was to magically appear in front of
us during that encounter then would be sleep with them?
The truth of the matter is we probably would. We just can
not deny that fact, your already aroused by what they are
saying about wanting to do to you therefore that arousal
would only get stronger if they were actually there.
Porn can be a wonderful thing from time to time. No different
then looking at an adult magazine featuring naked models.
I think it all goes back to that you can look but not touch
thing. If you touch while looking or listening to other
people real or fake that are having sex then you are wishing
you were involved therefore using that to get you off. It
is just not the same as sitting down all alone and stroking
or rubbing your self.
What about the men who look at a porno or magazine and then
go crawl into bed with their girlfriend or wife. While they
have sex with you they are most likely thinking about whatever
woman they were watching or looking at. That means they
arent actually have sex with you, they are wishing you
were someone else.
According to many new state laws, cybering can be considered
adultry now because it involves two people engaging in
a sexual activity togeather and can not just be done by one
person.
Written by:
A Mystic Writer and Hopeless Romantic....
All information within my articles is "my"
opinion. "My" opinions are formulated through
talking to real life people, and past relationships. Thanks
to the last ten years of community service work it has given
me the opportunity to get to know many older women and couples,
I hope I have learned from them and hope those that tried
taught me correctly. Passion happens to be "My cup
of tea" so to speak, and by no means am I telling people
to imitate me. Even I have the desire for a good hard encounter
once and awhile as well. Regardless remember that the only
person who really knows what another wants is that person
himself or herself. No one can ever speak for another accurately!
Your comments or feedback are more then welcome. If you
feel I miss something or need to clarify something then
please let me know and I will fix anything I overlook.
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