This is more of a comment than a question and will let you title it and decide where to put it.
I would like to comment on something that I see alot of out
there.This is probably going to ruffle a few feathers so
to speak out there.So I would like to say that I am sorry if
it does before I start.I have visited several sites out
there and see this in every day life as well.There are alot
of women out there that I see looking for romance, love, good
sex with, fun with, friendship with, etc and the right
one(a man).I look at alot of these profiles to see what these
women are looking for in or what the man must be.It seems
to be alot of the same thing time after time.He has to have
just the right schooling level, the right job, height, build, looks, he
can like this but not that, he can do this but not that and
the biggest one of all alot of money.I have not seen it written
out in words, but it sure is implied.It seems that if the
guy is not perfect that he is no good and does not stand a chance.I
also see that often times that if the guy does not have alot
that can be gotten out of him or that he can be taken for in
exchange for sex with or being with the women he does not
have a chance either.Let's face it , there in no such
thing as a perfect man or woman.You have to take the good
along with the bad.Everybody has a good and a bad side to
them , no exceptions.I also see other women out there that
are not this way too.In a way I can see why those of you that
are this way are here.It is sad you have no idea what you have
over looked and are missing out on.In any relationship
there has to be give and take along with a 50/50 sharing of
every thing(work, fun, money, bills etc) in order for
the relationship to work and or last.By being alittle more
giving or flexible in what you are looking for you might
just find a nice man quicker and easier.Sometimes I see
women asking if and or where all of the nice or good men are.We
are out here although alot of us are over looked because
we do not fit the "perfect mold".There are some
of us that might fit that mold with the looks, build, money, etc.Most
though are just ordinary men.I will admit that looks does
play a small part in the picture.Alot of the nice guys out
here are the ones that all of or most of our lives are the ones
that you girls or women will not or do not give a second look
and some times not even a first look at and some probably
never will.That is your mistake and loss for being so picky.Looks
and money might get you alot of material things, but will
not get you the one thing that some of you deep down really
want, LOVE.Most of the time when I look around the ones
that want men for what or how much they have, those same men
are only looking for looks and how many times they can get
into the woman's pants.To those that are that way , you
deserve each other.Those that want love over material
things are the ones that are not to picky for their own good.They
realize no one is perfect, that there has to be alittle
give and take, a little good and bad and want some one to"
SHARE" life with.They are also the ones that usually
understand and want a 50/50 relationship.They are also
the ones that give the over looked guys that first or second
look and can see the nice descent men for what they are and
not for how much they have.They are the ones that have what
the rest out there wish they had or could find.Unfortunately
things are the way they are , but it is also the truth.I know
this because I am one of those that was over looked a good
share of my life because I did not fit "THE MOLD"
or was alittle bit different than the rest of the guys.I
had alot of love to give and no one would take it or wanted
it or me either.Well as I got older some one gave me that second
look and realized how much love I had to give and the nice
descent man that I was and still am.We have been together
for 21 years and have always shared every thing that we have
or do 50/50 no matter what it may be.There is nothimg that
we will not do for each other with the exception of some thing
that is physically not possible for one or the other of us
to do.That woman is the best lover, friend and partener
that I have ever had or will ever have.In ending this little
piece of writing I want to say this.To those that have I am
very happy for you and may you always be that way.To every
one else I can only say that I hope that you get some thing
from this and that some day some or the rest of you will look
at things alittle differently and find one of the nice descent
ones of us out here.If not Ifeel sorry for you in a way, but
at the same time what can I say other than it is your lose and
there is really no one to blame but yourselves for what you
have or do not have as the case may be.This also pertains
to the men out there as well.Maybe in different terms and
ways , but it does.Some of us men are just as bad in the way
we look at women as they do us. countrylove0
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