Love making, or just sex?
People, some how I blew it. My wife and I have had some rocky
times in our marriage. Lately I have been trying hard to
put those bad times behind me and get on with our 23 year marriage
like 2 people who love each other. I have been trying to do
the good husband thing and kiss and hug my wife and tell her
I love her many times through out the day. I thank her for
the great things she does and has done for me throughout
our marraige. Last weekend we had sex on saturday morning.
It was slow and satisfying for both of us. I thought I was
thoughtful and loving in the way I carressed her. I was eager
to pleasure her before I got mine. Anyway, That evening
I could tell my wife was upset. I asked her what was wrong.
She caught me by suprise. She told me that I never say let's
make love anymore. I guess I have been saying lets get naked
and have sex. I didn't realize I was doing this. Plus
I thought my actions outside the bedroom would let her know
I love her. Guys, has this happened to you? Gals, why is it
so important for us to make love not just have sex?
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