The Survival Against Yourself
The survival against yourself
The theory of a persons life, is what has been installed
in them during its early stages of there life, from how they
react, behave and communicate etc. during there life.
So therefore the surroundings and teachers are the deciding
factor in how a persons life will develop. This is not a
new discovery, but a vital ingredient in my theory.
Thankful this can be altered.
People seek attention as a fuel, in order to progress as
an acceptance to them, so we can create a theory saying,
that a person does not trust there own judgments, until
they have being verified by others, to create trust in themselves.
People interest in power is along the same lines, an attention
but now controlled and enforced in fear of a high-unknown
outcome. The real fear is not against others but more unknowingly
directed to them, it is there own reaction that they themselves
fear, when confronting an obstacle that leads to the unknown
outcome.
Fear what a wonderful controlled state of mind!
Self-trust or survival against herself or himself is combined
with a persons learning of limitation in confronting the
unknown, taking that change, in order to become more aware
of there own power, which is an ongoing conflict.
Emotions and feelings are also a deciding factor to the
way a person reacts and has a very close relationship with
fear
Happiness is sometimes misunderstood, as being in a happy
state of mind with a big smile and full of joy, I believe it
has a close relationship to sadness. People are eager to
be sad to get in contact with their emotions and feelings
in order to be happy and content. This is where they are closest
to the inner soul the real them as to there constant protected
facade of a well optioned stereo type, but in the state of
mind where writers, poets, musical people, artists...make
genius masterpieces.
Lately I have been in much conversation upon the subject
of Love! Doses it exist or is it just want security, familiarity,
and understanding...of an object or person. I guess that
it is up to the gods to know? Since the never-ending debates.
How come we can analyze this so easily but would kill and
die the sake Love, maybe not so simple after all!
I have come across allot of people, removed from there emotions,
claming that Love is a state of mind that you are in total
control off combined of sex, lust, companionship etc.
This subject is the most exciting and important off all,
it enrolls all I have written till know and more.
Lets se if we can analyze it in a way not taking sides, starting
with meeting up with your becoming love, is there a masterprint
created over the years in our brains telling Os this is what
would make Os happy. Again a example of the word "Happiness"
why do we date or attract the so-called wrong person, is
it a physiological state of mind in wanting to go through
your parents order as a understanding in why you where brought
up this or that way without your wanted love, or a more masochistic
emotional pleasure, you tell me? Why do alarm bells go off,
in the form of sweating, blushing, nervous, memory blocks...When
we consciously have selected and manufactured our perfect
ideal match in our head but not our reactions, are we therefor
in control and aware of love. Something that annoys me is
when someone says to me think I am in love", which I
consider as a wrong statement, eighteen you know or you
aren't! This is where I believe you can cut down the
different states of love, pure love, the true love, the
one you learn to love, constructed love, fake love and sorry
the list goes on in the way you perceive it.
Pure love is rare in this confused attention-seeking world,
it is where nothing! fear, emotion and happiness is a obstacle,
"you are" full stop! Then there is the respected
love for your father/mother, friends a country etc. Should
we put that in the true love category? Learning to love is
more an acceptance and taking onboard a new view to like,
from there on the categories are downhill. Not a lot of people
in this life will find pure love or even true love sadly enough,
eighteen because of power, struggling to find themselves,
conflicts, lifestyle...many fall in the category where
they are confused if they love somebody or it is the sex that
is the ruling factor this is where they should be worried,
since it is a mental state and should be approached physiological,
this is where sex is the ruling factor, to find the best,
to be accepted by the world, to live to the full, etc. lot
of bullshit! Yes there I said it, It is the state you are in
when you are confused and may never recover to find the magical
formula Love which is so constantly powerful and No! I haven't
found it but I am getting closer everyday and thank god not
going blind, like the people that follow the trend of learning
to love.
By athenais35
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