The good and the bad sides of swingers parties
My husband and I have joined a swingers club in Southern
California. Joining takes a series of questions, basically
to make sure that you are who you claim to be. Then you are
invited to the parties (they are usually held twice a month).
The setting is absolutely fabulous. They have a very secured
place so you can be sure your privacy is protected. Every
party involves a "theme" and people dress and
undress in a very fancy and exciting way. There are several
rooms and activities, a swiming pool, jacuzzi, music to
dance to and excelent food. Ages vary from late twenties
to late fifties. The hostesses are four mid forties couples.
People are very respectful and no really means no.
So...you slowly get into the mood and start seeing nude
people doing threesomes, foursomes and all kinds of stuff.
That in and by itself is incredible fun...eventually somebody
joins you, usually another couple and you basically do
anything you want.
As an experience I would rate it a 10.
Now... the not so good stuff.
The first time we went there we basically were with two other
couples. They were squeaky clean and being "carried
away" my husband did not wear a condom , nor the other
two men... results: A pretty bad Thricommoniasis. Ok,
that got cured with antibiotics. (Pretty bad ones, made
you rather sick).
Second time...We decided we would not actually "fuck"
with anybody else, just play around. And limit fucking
just to the two of us.
So we did. Played with mouths, fingers, nipples and had
great fun. But...again: Trichomoniasis.
Conclusion... THERE IS NO SAFE WAY TO DO IT WITH STRANGERS.
We have decided that if we ever go there again, it will just
be a voyeuristic experience and we will look for a safe couple
outside the club for our swinging fun. Once we have all cleared
the health issue.
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