What Happened To Him and Should I Give Up?
I'm 35, and he's 43. We met online while I was going through
a divorce. We fell in love and had a very loving and mutually
sexually satisfying relationship. His parents (in their
70's) are very prejudice. I didn't know this prior to meeting
them (I'm a brown-skinned Indian / He's white). They acted
as if they accepted me and all was OK, I liked them too. We
became engaged to be married after my divorce was final.
We told his parents and they hugged me. What I didn't know
was that behind my back, they hated me. In July 2002, he abruptly
broke up with me … not telling me why; just saying
he couldn't do this.
September 2002, we got back together. He told me that his
parents and his brother were the reason he broke with me.
He promised me he loved me and to show how dedicated he was
to me, he transferred his job to my city, and we were in the
process of purchasing a home together. We were to close
on our home Dec28.
His parents and brother (age 50), kept calling him at work
and on his cell to get him to break with me again, or as they
put it, to talk some sense into him about being in an interracial
relationship (myths). He didn't do Thanksgiving with
them, but stayed with the kids and me. His parents told him
that I wasn't welcome at their home for Christmas so he had
to choose to be with them and remain part of the family, or
be with they won't have anything to do with him. He called
me from work several times on 12-17, just like normal …
I love you … can't wait to get home … will call
you from the road…
When I got home that evening, he and his clothes were gone.
He left me a note telling me that he couldn't do this any longer,
and for God to bless me and the kids in our journey through
life. That same day, he quit his job (in his field for 23 years),
and I found out later he's back home living with his parents.
I love and miss him dearly. He caused me to lose my kids, the
down payment on our new house, and my heart. He came back
last week, and said he wanted to keep our sexual relationship
because he missed that. I needed it too, because we did it
a lot and it was beautiful. Even though 'm getting over a
broken heart, I agreed. He slept with me on two separate
occasions. I IM'ed him online the other day just asking
how he was getting along, and now he won't respond. He put
me on ignore. I can just have him as a strictly sex partner,
but I don't know what he wants at this point.
I need sex, and I would like for it to be with him, but if he
doesn't want to he needs to just say it or what is wrong. What's
the deal?
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