The Ten Most Dangerous Mistake Men Makes...
The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women
And What To Do About It
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With WomenAnd
How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common
Mistakes...
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women
never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female
friends that always seemed to date "jerks"...
but for some reason they were never romantically interested
in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice"
a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful
GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful
ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense,
and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll
NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
Convince Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY
like... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN
"FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you
with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how
in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being
"reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead,
chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think
will make them like us), us guys are always doing things
to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up
to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like
you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always
getting her approval and permission for things",
think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually
get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who
chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To BuyHer Affection With Food And
Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,
bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for
someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you
did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am,
so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation
for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's
right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
How You FeelToo Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make
with women is sharing how they "feel" too early
on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women
are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times
a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens
of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends
her running away faster than just about anything is a guy
who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like
you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all
the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't
control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not GettingHow Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY
feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks?
Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years
now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction
mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and
unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way
around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men...
and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL
than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot,
sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do
this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving
up before they've even gotten started... because
they think that attractive women are only interested in
men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain
height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in
these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality
than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a
magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can
be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because
you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women feel the
same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a
woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING
AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing
whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over...
Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading
body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're
out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly
HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and
getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out,
kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will
probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from
one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting,
all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having
the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak
or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
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