Masturbation Partners?
I suppose I'm just ranting a little about my frustration
at being unable to find masturbation partners. What beter
place to do it than here where other people can put in their
.2 cents worth?
Anyways. I LOVE to masturbate. Consistantly, at least
3 times a day, almost every day. I love it, it feels SO good,
and it keeps my sex drive in check.
No, I'm not a single loser who can't find a girl.
I'm happily married, a daughter, 2 dogs, the house,
the white picket fence. My wife and I still make love on a
regular basis. In addition, we're exploring the lifestyle,
and thanks to Adult FriendFinder, we've met some truly GREAT people
(tho, have yet to actually play at all) whom we hope to keep
as long term friends.
All that aside, I still love to stroke, and have found that
through prolonged masturbation, I come harder, shoot
farther, and the more aroused I get the more willing I am
to explore other things. (Like fingers in the anus, tasting
my own cum, things I would never DREAM about when i'm
not aroused at all) It also helps my stamina, because I can
now masturbate for several hours, holding myself at a spot
just before orgasm.
I have also found that during the height of sexual arousal,
I've also become somewhat bi-curious. Last night
for example, I was masturbating and fantasizing about
men as well as women. A clean, shaved, circumsized cock
on a younger athletic male fuels the fire in the same way
that a woman with soft, pale skin and beautiful eyes does.
Not to say I crave sex with a man, but being in a group setting
of any kind with both men and women has become a primary fantasy.
I have even thought about receiving oral, giving oral,
giving anal and stroking another man.
I like that masturbation has done so much for me, and given
me the courage to explore other aspects of my sexuality,
but I also find it very frustrating that if you try to find
a masturbation "friend", male or female, there's
always big issues.
A woman thinks you're a pervert
A straight man thinks you're a fag
A Gay man wants more than to "just jerk off"
almost everyone think you're trying to step out on
your wife. (for the record, mine has encouraged me to start
a masturbation group, and would likely participate herself
if she felt comfortable)
Why all the stigman surrounding masturbation. If friends
can get together for other activities they enjoy, why not
this one? Why all the hangups?
If anyone knows of any co-ed masturbation clubs or groups
in the Edmonton Ab area, please do let me know? lol.
Thanks, and play safe everyone! :)
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