Signs Your Sexual Relationship Is Awful
You never feel satisfied
You get laid, which is great, but you rarely feel satisfied.
It's as though you're simply going through the
motions rather than enjoying the sensation of being beside
and inside your woman.
Sometimes you ejaculate but you simply don't orgasm
(it's quite possible, as they're two separate
things). Before you have sex, you envision all kinds of
awesome sex, but the reality of the act leaves you wanting
so much more.
What's the problem?
Your girl just lies there because she thinks that's
all that's required of her.
You need more than just to penetrate a woman.
There are other circumstances outside of sex that are stressing
you out, thus making sex difficult to enjoy.
You're not happy in your relationship.
What should you do?
Address the topic by suggesting that your woman show you
what she's got in her sexual arsenal. As well, have
sex in different locations or give new positions a shot.
Rent some erotic movies for ideas, or discuss your fantasies
with your girl.
If you're not happy in other facets of your life (financial,
family, work, etc.), figure out why and what you can do about
it.
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You think sex is only something you get as a reward
If you take out the garbage, pay for dinner, open the door
for her, and tell her how beautiful she is, you'll get
some. But if you miss a step, guess what? No piece for you.
That's crap.
What's the problem?
Your girl uses sex as a bargaining chip.
You've been conditioned to think that sex is a privilege,
not a right.
You have to "behave" to get laid.
What should you do?
The next time you "behave" just right and she
lies in the bed, naked, so you can penetrate at will, pass
on the offer.
The next time you "misbehave" and she says "no
sex tonight, " tell her, "you know, I'd
rather masturbate anyway."
Seriously though, you have to make it clear that sex isn't
a bargaining chip that she gets to dangle in your face. If
you discuss the topic as mature adults and she continues
to deprive you of sex, I recommend that you reevaluate your
situation in the relationship. Sex isn't about power;
it's about giving and receiving the ultimate pleasure.
She never initiates sex
Every time you want to have sex, you can. Problem is, you
have to do all the work and get her revved up; never the other
way around.
What's the problem?
You don't feel desired.
Your girl thinks that lying there means she's participating.
Your girl may think that girls who initiate sex are whores.
Your girl may think that you think that girls who initiate
sex are whores.
What should you do?
Ask your girl if she feels desired every time you initiate
sex. When she nods, tell her that in order for you to feel
desired as well, you need her to initiate sex every now and
then. And she's always welcome to get on her knees.
It's okay.
If she says she's shy, then offer to initiate, but tell
her that you'd like her to get more involved in the act.
Break her out of her shell. When she's on top, tell her
how awesome it feels and how hot she is. Remember; women
need compliments... especially when they're naked.
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You prefer to masturbate
Rather than make the effort to get laid, you'd much
prefer to whip it out and take care of business yourself
instead. It's quicker and easier that way.
What's the problem?
You're falling out of touch with women sexually.
If you masturbate aggressively (by squeezing the penis),
chances are the sensation of a vagina doesn't cut it
for you.
You have to spend the first 60 minutes of the evening trying
to bring her to orgasm.
There may be underlying issues in your relationship that
you'd rather not address.
What should you do?
If the problem involves her, then confront it. If you have
to spend 60 minutes getting her to orgasm before you're
even allowed to penetrate her, then chances are sex is more
laborious than it is fun. Invest in a vibrator, or ask her
to discuss her fantasies with you. Orgasm starts in the
brain and if you can liberate her wild side mentally, her
body will follow suit.
As well, it's okay if she doesn't have an orgasm
every single time you have sex. It's not simply your
responsibility to get her off; she has a responsibility
to herself as well.
Open up to new sexual adventures. Who knows, maybe she needs
a spanking, or maybe watching you masturbate will get her
off. You'll only find out if you try new things.
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