IM rudeness, or me?

Two questions in one, actually. Being new to this, I tried
the IM thing a couple times. Most all are not on line, the
majority that were on line declined, and the 2 or 3 that answered
were very rude and short. I was polite and tried to make my
opening comments intruiging, but not rude or crude. Also
notice that when they do answer, they take a long time, as
much as 5 min. to answer. Why? What are they doing.... cooking
dinner, waiting for the next commercial?..... In reference
to offers being declined, any logical explanation for
that? Are they on line IMing with someone else, or what?
Seems like if the don't want to talk, they'd have
their IM off.

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