I'm too young for my lover to be impotent!
We are in our early 40's... I work full time days, and he works
days and takes on more jobs at night (about twice a week)
but usually has weekends off... He's had a back injury about
15 years ago... anyways, we've both been married (to other
people) twice, so this is the third time for us both... I've
been a full time mother since I was 19 years old, most of the
20 years of children (now grown & on their own mostly) I was
a single parent... Now, I finally find someone who connects
with me and he's impotent! AHHHH! My sexuality is just 'waking
up' now without the threat of children & being a role model,
etc.... What do I do? I want to enjoy grownups, not just sexually,
but intellectually, etc... I've spent most of my life raising,
providing for children and now I want to play a little! He
has a daughter in kindergarten and needs someone to be with
her when he works his nights... he has the days worked out....
we can never go out just by ourselves without the kid, although
I do love her dearly, enough is enough! He's a good man...
he gets home before I do during the week & will most often
have dinner cooked & I usually take care of the kitchen mess
after.... we share the housework & home maintenance....
what to do? Please! I'm looking at swinging, but that won't
be very good if he can't share, too! I'm interested in a bi-relationship,
but with all the chidcare needs, my needs, again, get put
on hold, & for how long this time?
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