Running hot and cold...what's the deal?!
I met a guy a few months ago, and after shamelessly flirting
with one another, we finally went out. We made out on the
beach, and went all the way on our next date. He seemed interested,
and I was obviously interested! Then, after about three
months, he cooled off. He seems really depressed...works
very long hours, is going through a difficult divorce,
etc. But I've made it clear that I don't expect too much...just
want to be with him once in a while. He'll make suggestive
comments to me, say he'll call, etc. then nothing happens!
I know I should probably just forget him, but I can't! He
turns me on! And he was my first lover in 21 years (I was an
inexperienced bride, and been married for 16 years before
my recent divorce). ANy suggestions on how to heat him up
again? HELP!
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