Trying to hold on?! NO!!!
When you are dumped it is always hard to get rid of the feeling
of wanting your partner back and there are a lot of reasons
you can come up with in order to keep yourself hang on. DON'T!
It will only increase your pain. If you partner decides
to dump you for whatever reason, this reason is strong enough
to make her believe that she doesn't need you in her
life anymore. Don't call, don't talk, don't
hang around where you hope to meet her. Even if she says she
misses you and your hugs or kisses or company or whatever
it is just her feeling that she has lost something. It is
not worth however to try to make something ut of this. If
she really loves you, as you might want to think, she will
come back. But not if you run after her like a little doggy.
Let her come to you. If she does, fine. If not, she is not worth
a single tear. Believe me...just been through this...
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