Re: answer the winks
On this profile I am a standard member. I have recieved several
winks from other standard members. I enjoy the attention
so please do not get me wrong. I do however have a question
or two that perhaps you can answer for me.
One is since I am standard member, and am not allowed to
contact you unless you write an e mial for me to reply to,
how do you propose I answer you. Should I upgrade just to
be able to reply to winks from others?
What I very simply do is to go to my paid site and check out
your profile. If I like what I see, then I wink back and wait
on you to figure out how to contact me ..After all you initiated
the process not me. If I really like it and think that we might
click, then I will contact you from there (the paid one)
and reference this profile. If for some reason I do not like
the profile, I.E., you do not FIT the specified criteria
asked for, then I simply ignore it.
If it is an e mail and it does not fit the required criteria,
I simply delete it and chalk up one more person who cannot
read. Rude? Yes it is. It is just about as rude as those who
do not read the profiles before contact is made or, those
who try to tell you that what you asked for, is not what you
really want..
Do I have a problem getting what I ask for?
Not in the slightest.
I recieve far more requests to meet, than I could possibly
have time for.
Do I answer those who fit the criteria?
Yes they recieve a very nice thank you and either a request
to continue or a sorry but not at the present time reply.
Sorry, I went off on another tangent again. Very rude I know.
At any rate, I guess that what I am trying to get across is
that in my personal opinion, winks and invites to join someones
friend circle, do not require an answer.
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