We don't owe................
I'd say this: first remember that none of us here owe
any one else here anything, if we do not choose them. All
here are adukts, and how they feel is up to them. I have come
to expect that, no one here owes me, any loyalties, or even
the truth on ANY given subject, at all. I owe nothing to anyone
either. Not to sound cold in anyway, I don't want to
be harsh or rude ever, but when I do answer with a "no
thank you" so to speak, I just tell them what I am honestly
thinking. Like, I don't believe I am "yuppie"
enuf for you, or our age difference is too great for my liking,
or, I am not wanting to travel this far.Most accept and understand
just fine, tho I have had an occational man or 2 that have
not been so nice in return. But then that's life, this
is the internet, it happens all the time, everyone gets
over it, and moves on, all inclusive, so not to worry. Being
an adult, I go into every dating situation realizing I could
be rejected, turned down, for any number of reasons. NOT
everyone is a match, if he/she/they don't do 'it'
for you, then I turn away. I don't always have the time
to answer all either, but I attempt to, when I can, as I am
a slow typer, by any standards. Straight up is 100% respected
by me, and a gratefule time saver as well. Not waisting my
time, is important to me. I respect a straight up, No Thax.
Sincerely, Kris
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