How to flirt
How to flirt
Whether you want to flirt with a woman or a man, this handy
list should help!
Top Ten List of Flirting Tips
By Fran Greene
10. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident
and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive,
it works!
9. Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying
hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask
for help, state an opinion.
8. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous.
Show your vulnerability.
7. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are
natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation
and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great
props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous
scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting
ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.
6. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest
to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather
the welcome committee.
5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want
to meet. Say hello!
4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should
listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art.
Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves
to be heard.
3. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner
in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance
away. Dont stare its a turn off.
2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The
best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee"
will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your
compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When
you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank
You!
1. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more
approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people
to you. You will be a people magnet. Try it
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