My wife has no interest in sex. What should I do?
My wife and I have been together for 8 years and our sex life
is non-existent. Before we married my wife admitted she
had 'problems' with sex stating that she was 'frigid'.
I loved her (I still do, very much) and thought this was something
we could work through together. We got married and attended
sexual counselling sessions but my wife refused to carry
out the exercises the counsellor recommended. I've
asked my wife countless times what she would like me to do
to in order for our love making to be plesureable for her
but she doesn't seem to know herself. When I make suggestions
(lingerie, telling me her fantasies etc.) she refuses
to participate.
I love her very much but feel like I'm in a friendship
rather than a marriage. She's not interested in the
physical side of our relationship but says that if I had
an affair our marriage would be over. I don't want that,
she's attractive, funny and my best friend but I need
the physical enjoyment and intimacy of sex. That's
why I've joined Adult FriendFinder, commitment free, but fun sexual
experiences. My wife has no idea I've joined. Does
anybody have any advice about my situation? Do I keep having
the same conversation with my wife or just try and go for
no-strings, discrete fun on Adult FriendFinder? Thanks for the advice.
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