They Don't Care?
I grew up in Singapore. A multi-racial, cultural, religion
country. My neighbours, teachers, classmates, best friends,
colleagues are of different races. I have been lucky to
be exposed to the beauty of the different ethnics and colourful
histories of the many Asian races. I know we must not discriminate
people by the colour of their skins and I don't. But
I do have very defined taste when it comes to getting intimate
with someone. For no reason that I can think of, I do not get
turned on by Asian men. Asian women... I like. It isn't
that I had a bad experience. It's not about endowment.
I have never been able to 'go the distance' with
an Asian even though I tried.
So I wrote it all in my profile. I reckon, this is a SEX and
SWINGERS' site, and let's not be coy and say we
want to 'make friends'. I am hoping to meet people
to get raunchy with and I don't want to end up with someone
who doesn't turn me on. Thus my preferences kick in.
I state very clearly in my profile what I am looking for.
Yet I get all kinds of Asians writing to me. When I tell them
I don't prefer Asians, they hurl the most colourful
insults at me, calling me names in languages I don't
understand.
Why? Am I wrong to have preferences? Does it make me a bad
person to not want to be intimate with a certain type of people?
Or is it only bad when I am honest about it? I have been rejected
for being fat, and I don't insult them. I understand
one man's meat (I mean it literally) can be another
man's poison.
Look, I have nothing against Asians. I love Asians. My entire
family is Asian. But I won't fuck an Asian, not now anyway
... and I am still not going to apologise for it.
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