Being Big
I live in CT, where being a "big guy" really isn't
the coolest thing to be, especially in the dating arena.
I have absolutely no problems with confidence or self esteem,
and I don't play myself out to women to look like an asshole.
I'm a fun loving guy, who likes to joke alot but knows
when to be serious. I'm basically saying, I have no
problems talking to women, and I don't think I should
have any problems picking them up. But when comes down to
it, it's "oh, he's great, but he's a
big dude, I don't think so." Seriously what is
the deal here? Should I just say fuck it, or do I need to change
my demographic in this country? What is the major malfunction
here? Any positive advice would be greatly appreciated.
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