Labels: heterosexual, bisexual, bicurious, homosexual
I'm a heterosexual male who is curious about being
SEXUALLY INTIMATE with a member of the same sex (THIS MEANS
THAT I'M PREPARED FOR AN ENTIRELY UNORTHODOX RELATIONSHIP...)-
I'm a heterosexual(label) male that is ROMANTICALLY
AND SEXUALLY intimate with someone of the opposite sex...my
partner (female) in life...my best friend. Guys there
is a big difference between sexual pleasure and romantic, sexual
intimacy, and you don't have to cheat on your wife or
girlfriend with another women to achieve a little "strange"
sexual pleasure. Some might say that the first sentence
of this paragraph describes or implies a homosexual(label)
attraction...this is not true in my case. I DON'T LIKE
BEING "LIMITED" BY GENDER ROLES OR CHOICES.
SEX...you can choose to play it well, or you can choose to
play it poorly...sex should be the source of the most delicious
sensations.
My sex-life refers to desires, indulgence, and self-concept,
and should not be confused as bisexual(label) behavior
- even though the majority sexual preference is bi-sexual(label),
not heterosexual(label). Unfortunately we (men) live
a lifetime of practicing bisexual(label), bicurious(label),
monogamy. Gentlemen, we all have unexplainable queer
impulses and that's what scares so many of us heterosexual
men. Unfortunately, society pressures most everyone
to CONFORM and to never EXPERIMENT. We live in a world that
doesn't allow people to relax and just be who they are.
WHAT WE FEAR IN OTHERS, WE MUST FEAR IN OURSELVES.Guys,
the hardest thing to give (is in)...honestly. Women on
the other hand are just the opposite...women understand
the true concept of sexual freedom.
I too practiced bisexual/bicurious(labels) monogamy
because the thought of having sex with another guy disgusted
me. GUESS WHAT GUYS - and this should come as no surprise
- we all love a good blow job and we love to shoot a good load.
Most of us have fantasized about and have ask our wives or
girlfriends if she would be open to inviting a bisexual(label)
woman in the bedroom for a three way. (two women - one guy).
Guys, most woman fantasize about watching their man blow
another man. Woman most generally will agree to our girl,
girl, man three way requests, but we rarely agree to their
man-to-man and participating girl requests.
What I have expressed in this profile for EVERY HETEROSEXUAL(label)
MAN that reads it is that my intent is different from my sexual
orientation. When it comes to "GOOD UNINHIBITED
SEX" my sexuality expands far beyond physical gender.
THE PARAGRAPH THAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ WAS NOT INCLUDED
IN MY PROFILE PRIOR TO DECEMBER 20TH. I'VE ADDED THIS
PARAGRAPH TO ADD CLARITY TO WHO I AM. I firmly believe that
SEX should flow naturally and easily, and please note that
it's clearly understood that reality is often different...but
also know that it's clearly understood that society's
repressed attitudes about sex has forced the majority
into closets, all of whom live a life of unhappiness. How
can we possibly feel comfortable with SEX at all with so
many barriers and labels forced down our throats? My life
is free from barriers...I do not place people in categories,
nor do I label them - (you will find labels used in this profile
in order to provide clarity and understanding). MY REALTIONSHIP
WITH MY PARTNER IN LIFE IS NOT BOUND WITH "STRINGS"
NOR IS IT HANGING BY A THREAD. My relationship is complete
with absolute happiness - its strength is HONESTY to each
other, and with ourselves. It's completely free of
jealousy...it's free of resentment...it's
free of codependency. WE UNDERSTAND MUTUALLY THAT SEXUAL
PLEASURE IS LETTING GO - EXPRESSING YOURSELF, AND IT DOESN'T
MATTER IF YOU'RE EXPRESSING YOURSELF IN OR OUTSIDE
THE BEDROOM AND IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT'S WITH
SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX OR THE SAME SEX. MOST IMPORTANTLY
OUR SEX LIFE IS NOT BASED ON SOCIETY'S PERCEPTION.
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