MASTERING SELF-CONFIDENCE
MASTERING SELF-CONFIDENCE
Attitude is Everything.Surely, youve
heard this
saying.We wont waste a lot of time discussing
self-esteem and assertiveness training.This opens up
a
whole discussion of psychological mumbo-jumbo which
could fill volumes and volumes of books.Theres
only
one Golden Rule that applies here.Learn it, remember
it, and apply it to your life:
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
What is it exactly that has you lacking confidence?
Your looks? Your inexperience with women? Your lack of
social graces?? Only YOU can determine the factors
that inhibit you from a good self-image.And only YOU
can change those factors.
A poor self-image or low self-esteem directly affects
the way that you behave toward others.That dreaded
fear of rejection can make you shy or overeager
to
please.Your insecurities can induce jealousy, damaging
any hope of a relationship.Your self-esteem has a
direct bearing on your confidence and ability to
attract others.If you see yourself in a bad light,
chances are that others do as well. By the same token,
if you think that youre a pretty good guy, women
will
take notice.
When you have positive self-esteem, you feel that you
are worth something.Dont EVER think that you cant
change the image that you project to others!Theres
a
lot that you can do to not only build up your own
self-esteem, but to change the way that others see
you.
If youre overweight go on a diet.
If youre scrawny start a workout
program.
If youre going bald look into a
hair-growth system
like Propecia.
If youre shy practice assertiveness.
If youre embarassed about your penis size
read the
next section of this manual!
Whatever it is thats making you feel bad about
yourself, CHANGE IT!!!Attitude IS everything.Some of
the most unattractive guys in the world are able to
get women, and you know why?Because they BELIEVE they
are attractive.Attitude is everything!
Well give you the Golden Rule one more time:
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE!
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