Sex outside my marriage--what's best approach?

MWM male, married for 16 years to a wonderful woman who doesn't
participate with me sexually (doesn't even cross her mind).
Rather than destroy our relationship with incessant,
unmet demands, what's the best way to form sexual liaisons
outside of my marriage that will not threaten its otherwise
stability and to prevent from bringing home some unwanted
STDs? Rather than whine or make demands she can't fulfill,
I've decided it's best to take care of my own needs without
her.

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