giving too much?
hey,
my last relationship was pretty weird.. lasted a bit less
than 2 years, and in the first part of it, my girlfriend was
the one who loved me more. i was more independant and SHE
was dependant on me, with less self-confidence than I had.
But in the second part of our relationship, after having
given her self-confidence, it kind of turned against me,
for she became so independant, and I was the dependant one
then...
she didn't like it, and eventually left me for someone else,
which just about killed me.
So later on i thought, well maybe i should not open completely
to a woman anymore, and keep my true feelings for myself..
I mean, i'd still tell her i love her, etc.. but not TOO much,
to always keep HER in the dependant position..
What do you think of that? should we become wussies with
women, or ALWAYS keep a tough manly 'whatever' attitude??
it just seems that when i truly open up to a woman, she doesn't
like it and turns me down..
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